{"id":291,"date":"2025-05-21T05:02:36","date_gmt":"2025-05-21T05:02:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.detati.net\/copefamilysupport\/?page_id=291"},"modified":"2025-08-06T12:25:43","modified_gmt":"2025-08-06T19:25:43","slug":"couples-counseling","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/dev.detati.net\/copefamilysupport\/counseling-options\/couples-counseling\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples Counseling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container has-pattern-background has-mask-background nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-margin-top:0px;--awb-background-color:rgba(65,139,202,0.25);--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row 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fusion-title-size-one\" style=\"--awb-margin-top:0px;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><h1 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;\"><h1>Couples Counseling<\/h1><\/h1><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\" data-scroll-devices=\"small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-section-separator section-separator curved 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non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:25px;--awb-padding-bottom:10px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_2 1_2 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:50%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:3.84%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:3.84%;--awb-width-medium:50%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:3.84%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:3.84%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Our couples counseling helps partners strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and navigate relationship challenges together. Guided by trained therapists, couples learn practical tools to manage conflict, improve connection, and foster a deeper understanding of one another. Services are inclusive and affirming of all relationship types.<\/p>\n<p>This form of therapy supports couples facing issues such as communication breakdowns, infidelity, parenting disagreements, or emotional disconnection. Using approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) or Gottman Method principles, therapists help couples understand negative interaction cycles and replace them with healthier patterns. The goal is to create a stronger, more resilient partnership built on mutual respect and emotional safety.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_2 1_2 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:50%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:3.84%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:3.84%;--awb-width-medium:50%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:3.84%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:3.84%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element \" 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https:\/\/dev.detati.net\/copefamilysupport\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/couples-counseling-400x229.jpg 400w, https:\/\/dev.detati.net\/copefamilysupport\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/couples-counseling-600x343.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dev.detati.net\/copefamilysupport\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/couples-counseling.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 fusion-flex-container has-pattern-background has-mask-background nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"accordian fusion-accordian\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:2px;--awb-padding-bottom:2px;--awb-border-size:1px;--awb-icon-size:16px;--awb-content-font-size:var(--awb-typography4-font-size);--awb-icon-alignment:left;--awb-hover-color:var(--awb-color2);--awb-border-color:var(--awb-color3);--awb-background-color:var(--awb-color1);--awb-divider-color:var(--awb-color4);--awb-divider-hover-color:var(--awb-color4);--awb-icon-color:var(--awb-color7);--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color1);--awb-content-color:var(--awb-color8);--awb-icon-box-color:var(--awb-color4);--awb-toggle-hover-accent-color:var(--awb-color1);--awb-toggle-active-accent-color:var(--awb-color1);--awb-title-font-family:&quot;Lato&quot;;--awb-title-font-weight:400;--awb-title-font-style:normal;--awb-title-font-size:18px;--awb-content-font-family:&quot;Lato&quot;;--awb-content-font-style:normal;--awb-content-font-weight:300;\"><div class=\"panel-group fusion-toggle-icon-boxed\" id=\"accordion-291-1\"><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-0c6eb9bf9c15472f7 fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_0c6eb9bf9c15472f7\"><a class=\"active\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-controls=\"0c6eb9bf9c15472f7\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#0c6eb9bf9c15472f7\" href=\"#0c6eb9bf9c15472f7\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">Is it worth going to Couples Counseling?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"0c6eb9bf9c15472f7\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse in\" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_0c6eb9bf9c15472f7\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>Absolutely. Counseling provides people with a safe, affirming space where you can hit pause, get out of unhelpful cycles you may not even realize exist, and learn healthier ways to connect.<\/p>\n<p>Couples counseling specifically works by helping you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Understand each other\u2019s needs<\/li>\n<li>Learn to resolve conflict in a safe way<\/li>\n<li>Heal from hurtful moments<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-6ee8871aa2b127cf6 fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_6ee8871aa2b127cf6\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"6ee8871aa2b127cf6\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#6ee8871aa2b127cf6\" href=\"#6ee8871aa2b127cf6\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">Is Couples Counseling worth it if we don\u2019t stay together?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"6ee8871aa2b127cf6\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_6ee8871aa2b127cf6\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>While our initial objective is to rebuild trust, improve communication, and foster healthy relationships for the well-being of all involved, some couples choose to part after counseling.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless, COPE\u2019s clients often say they leave with more clarity. That clarity is yours to keep. You can use it to build and maintain all kinds of relationships throughout your life.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-c2d716c12c2f853bb fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_c2d716c12c2f853bb\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"c2d716c12c2f853bb\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#c2d716c12c2f853bb\" href=\"#c2d716c12c2f853bb\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">What\u2019s the best type of therapy for couples?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"c2d716c12c2f853bb\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_c2d716c12c2f853bb\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>There\u2019s no one-size-fits-all answer. But the best couples counseling methods are evidence-based. This means that they\u2019ve been tested, analyzed, and proven to work when couples commit to the program.<\/p>\n<p>Some of the most effective approaches include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)<\/strong>: Focuses on identifying and changing negative patterns in how you think and respond.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)<\/strong>: Helps you rebuild emotional bonds and trust.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Gotta man Method:<\/strong> A mindset strategy that helps you stop overexplaining by imagining you\u2019ve &#8220;gotta man&#8221; who handles things for you\u2014so you don\u2019t need to justify, defend, or elaborate.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Narrative Therapy:<\/strong> Helps you reframe your life by viewing problems as separate from yourself and rewriting your story in a more empowering way.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Solution-Focused Therapy:<\/strong> Focuses on your strengths and what\u2019s working, guiding you to build solutions rather than dwell on problems.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>COPE uses approaches that are trauma-informed and culturally sensitive, making sure therapy fits each couple\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-fedeb88cf7231ac2f fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_fedeb88cf7231ac2f\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"fedeb88cf7231ac2f\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#fedeb88cf7231ac2f\" href=\"#fedeb88cf7231ac2f\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">When should you get couples counseling?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"fedeb88cf7231ac2f\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_fedeb88cf7231ac2f\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>Don\u2019t wait for a crisis. The earlier you go, the more likely you are to strengthen the relationship and restore trust. That said, it\u2019s never too late when you and your partner are committed to improving how you relate to each other.<\/p>\n<p>You might notice the following indicators that it\u2019s time to get couples counseling.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>When small problems keep growing<\/li>\n<li>If you\u2019ve stopped having fun together<\/li>\n<li>After a big life change, like a new baby or a loss<\/li>\n<li>When you&#8217;re thinking, \u201cWe keep having the same fight and nothing changes\u201d<\/li>\n<li>When you recognize that your children are learning your patterns, and without intervention, they will carry them into their own adult relationships<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>COPE encourages couples to see counseling as preventive care\u2014not a last resort.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-a758a9c723d4867b5 fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_a758a9c723d4867b5\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"a758a9c723d4867b5\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#a758a9c723d4867b5\" href=\"#a758a9c723d4867b5\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">What are the signs we need Couples Counseling?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"a758a9c723d4867b5\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_a758a9c723d4867b5\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<ul>\n<li>Frequent arguments about the same things<\/li>\n<li>Long silences or emotional distance<\/li>\n<li>A sense of walking on eggshells<\/li>\n<li>Jealousy, lack of trust, or betrayal<\/li>\n<li>A change in intimacy\u2014physical or emotional<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-3435fc6b89a68bd54 fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_3435fc6b89a68bd54\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"3435fc6b89a68bd54\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#3435fc6b89a68bd54\" href=\"#3435fc6b89a68bd54\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">How Is Couples Counseling Different From Individual Therapy?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"3435fc6b89a68bd54\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_3435fc6b89a68bd54\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>In couples counseling, you&#8217;re both in the room (or on the video call), working on your relationship together. The therapist helps you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Understand how you each communicate and why it matters<\/li>\n<li>Break cycles that keep you stuck<\/li>\n<li>Create space for empathy, not just problem-solving<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In individual therapy, the focus is on <em>you<\/em>\u2014your thoughts, past experiences, and goals. At COPE, therapists may recommend doing both types at different times, depending on what you need most.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-d16da95a64723a5ca fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_d16da95a64723a5ca\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"d16da95a64723a5ca\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#d16da95a64723a5ca\" href=\"#d16da95a64723a5ca\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">How do we prepare for couples counseling?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"d16da95a64723a5ca\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_d16da95a64723a5ca\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>Getting ready for couples counseling isn\u2019t about being perfect\u2014it\u2019s about being open to a new experience that may include different ways of looking at the same old problems.<\/p>\n<p>A little prep can make your first session way more productive if you and your partner feel you can have this discussion first. If not, that\u2019s okay, too! Your family therapist will walk you through challenging conversations. That\u2019s why we\u2019re here.<\/p>\n<p>As a couple:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Talk about your goals.<\/strong> What do each of you hope to get out of counseling? More understanding? Less arguing? A stronger connection? Knowing your \u201cwhy\u201d helps your therapist guide the process. Avoid goals that involve changing the other person, such as \u201cI want my partner to stop drinking so much\u201d so we can focus on what we can change together first.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Agree to be respectful.<\/strong> You don\u2019t have to agree on everything, but you do need to stay calm, listen, and avoid blame during sessions.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>On an individual level:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Be honest with yourself.<\/strong> Think about your own role in the relationship challenges\u2014not just your partner\u2019s. Counseling works best when both people are willing to reflect and grow.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Be ready to get uncomfortable.<\/strong> Some sessions might bring up tough feelings. That\u2019s okay. Real change often comes from working through hard stuff together.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And remember\u2014COPE Family Support Center offers a safe, affirming space where both of you can be heard, supported, and guided toward real solutions. You don\u2019t have to figure it all out before you walk in the door. Just show up willing to try.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-39170d4e0756d0d8a fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_39170d4e0756d0d8a\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"39170d4e0756d0d8a\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#39170d4e0756d0d8a\" href=\"#39170d4e0756d0d8a\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">What is the difference between Couples Counseling and Marriage Counseling?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"39170d4e0756d0d8a\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_39170d4e0756d0d8a\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>The term you choose simply depends on the status of your relationship. At COPE, we recognize that committed relationships can take different forms and all can benefit from the clarity that Couples Counseling can bring.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you choose to complete Couples Therapy before tying the knot, have no plans of marrying, are co-parenting while separated, or are legally married, COPE provides a safe, affirming space for all to pause, listen, evaluate, and meet the objectives of your relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-a2a4ccf7b5b67e458 fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_a2a4ccf7b5b67e458\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"a2a4ccf7b5b67e458\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#a2a4ccf7b5b67e458\" href=\"#a2a4ccf7b5b67e458\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">What Is the success rate of Couples Counseling?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"a2a4ccf7b5b67e458\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_a2a4ccf7b5b67e458\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>Research shows that couples who receive couples therapy<a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC10087549\/\"> feel better about their relationships<\/a> than 70-80% of couples who try to work it out without professional support. Studies also support notable reductions in infidelity, partner violence of all kinds, sexual relation difficulties, and couple-specific challenges.<\/p>\n<p>Individuals within the couple also noted benefits in their own emotional, behavioral, and physical health after completing couples therapy\u2014of vital importance to the success of the couple and an individual. As your well-being grows you become better able to navigate the relationships that matter most.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-panel panel-default panel-58b2119d3ce4b5fcb fusion-toggle-has-divider\" style=\"--awb-title-color:var(--awb-color8);\"><div class=\"panel-heading\"><h4 class=\"panel-title toggle\" id=\"toggle_58b2119d3ce4b5fcb\"><a aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"58b2119d3ce4b5fcb\" role=\"button\" data-toggle=\"collapse\" data-parent=\"#accordion-291-1\" data-target=\"#58b2119d3ce4b5fcb\" href=\"#58b2119d3ce4b5fcb\"><span class=\"fusion-toggle-icon-wrapper\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><i class=\"fa-fusion-box active-icon awb-icon-minus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><i class=\"fa-fusion-box inactive-icon awb-icon-plus\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><span class=\"fusion-toggle-heading\">Does Couples Therapy work?<\/span><\/a><\/h4><\/div><div id=\"58b2119d3ce4b5fcb\" class=\"panel-collapse collapse \" aria-labelledby=\"toggle_58b2119d3ce4b5fcb\"><div class=\"panel-body toggle-content fusion-clearfix\">\n<p>At COPE Family Support Center, many couples report real progress using trauma-informed, evidence-based approaches like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and emotionally focused techniques. 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